feat(bff): owner-scoped self-service withdraw endpoint (S-11c-1, refs #12) (#90)

## What & why

Third sub-slice of **S-11 · Withdrawal (Flow 3)** (#12) — the **owner-scoped BFF withdraw endpoint** (backend). S-11a/b made a withdrawal transition the aggregate and cancel the workflow; this adds the citizen-facing entry point through the BFF, gated to the registration's owner.

- **Domain**: `WithdrawRegistrationCommand` carries the caller's `bsn`; the handler returns a `WithdrawOutcome` and refuses a bsn that doesn't own the registration. Unknown and not-owned are **both 404** (indistinguishable — ownership isn't revealed). `POST /registrations/{id}/withdraw` takes `{bsn}` and maps the outcome (204/404).
- **BFF**: `POST /self-service/registrations/{id}/withdraw` (DigiD-authenticated) forwards the token's `bsn` to the domain and relays 204/404. The BFF authenticates; the domain owner-scopes (an aggregate invariant, not the domain doing auth).
- OpenAPI spec + Angular client regenerated for the new endpoint.
- `run-domain-check.sh` withdrawal step now sends the owner `bsn` (verify-stack).

Refs #12 — the self-service "trek aanvraag in" button + e2e (S-11c-2) closes it.

## Definition of Done

- [x] Linked Gitea issue (#12).
- [x] Failing tests committed before the implementation.
- [x] Implementation makes the tests pass.
- [x] Conventional Commits referencing the issue (`refs #12`).
- [ ] CI green — all Gitea Actions jobs.
- [x] `docker compose up` unaffected.
- [x] No ADR needed (owner-scoping is an aggregate invariant; no boundary change).
- [x] Docs — the user-visible demo note lands with S-11c-2.

## Notes for reviewers

- **Full local gate run before pushing this time** (lessons from #89): `dotnet format --verify-no-changes` clean; `make unit` green — Acl 27, EventSubscriber 19, BFF 30, Acceptance 9, Big 95; `api-client` lint+test green.
- Owner mismatch returns 404 (not 403) so the portal can't be used to probe which references exist.

Reviewed-on: #90

services/domain/Big.Application/WithdrawRegistration.cs

@@ -2,8 +2,21 @@ using Big.Domain;
 
 namespace Big.Application;
 
-/// <summary>A zorgprofessional's request to withdraw their own registration ("trek aanvraag in").</summary>
-public sealed record WithdrawRegistrationCommand(RegistrationId RegistrationId);
+/// <summary>A zorgprofessional's request to withdraw their own registration ("trek aanvraag in").
+/// <paramref name="Bsn"/> is the authenticated caller (from the DigiD token, forwarded by the BFF):
+/// only the registration's own bsn may withdraw it.</summary>
+public sealed record WithdrawRegistrationCommand(RegistrationId RegistrationId, string Bsn);
+
+/// <summary>The outcome of a withdrawal request.</summary>
+public enum WithdrawOutcome
+{
+    /// <summary>The registration is now (or already was) INGETROKKEN.</summary>
+    Withdrawn,
+
+    /// <summary>No registration with that id belongs to the caller — unknown, or owned by someone
+    /// else (the two are deliberately indistinguishable, so the endpoint reveals neither).</summary>
+    NotFound,
+}
 
 /// <summary>
 /// The withdrawal use case (S-11): a zorgprofessional pulls a still-open registration back. It
@@ -16,16 +29,19 @@ public sealed record WithdrawRegistrationCommand(RegistrationId RegistrationId);
 /// </summary>
 public sealed class WithdrawRegistration(IRegistrationStore store, IWorkflowClient workflow)
 {
-    public async Task HandleAsync(WithdrawRegistrationCommand command, CancellationToken ct = default)
+    public async Task<WithdrawOutcome> HandleAsync(WithdrawRegistrationCommand command, CancellationToken ct = default)
     {
         ArgumentNullException.ThrowIfNull(command);
 
-        var registration = await store.GetAsync(command.RegistrationId, ct)
-            ?? throw new InvalidOperationException($"No registration {command.RegistrationId} to withdraw.");
+        var registration = await store.GetAsync(command.RegistrationId, ct);
+
+        // Unknown, or not the caller's registration: report NotFound either way (don't reveal which).
+        if (registration is null || registration.Bsn != command.Bsn)
+            return WithdrawOutcome.NotFound;
 
         // A repeated withdrawal is a no-op: don't persist or cancel the already-withdrawn one again.
         if (registration.Status == RegistrationStatus.Ingetrokken)
-            return;
+            return WithdrawOutcome.Withdrawn;
 
         registration.Withdraw();
         await store.SaveAsync(registration, ct);
@@ -33,5 +49,7 @@ public sealed class WithdrawRegistration(IRegistrationStore store, IWorkflowClie
         // Cancel the running process (if one was started) so its Beoordelen task leaves the werkbak.
         if (registration.ProcessInstanceId is not null)
             await workflow.WithdrawProcessAsync(registration.ProcessInstanceId, ct);
+
+        return WithdrawOutcome.Withdrawn;
     }
 }