feat(obs): OpenTelemetry distributed tracing across the five .NET services (refs #123)

Each host adds AddOpenTelemetry().WithTracing with ASP.NET Core + HttpClient
auto-instrumentation and an OTLP exporter to Tempo; service name + endpoint from
OTEL_* env set per app service in compose. Since every cross-service call goes
through a typed HttpClient, traceparent propagates for free, so a request is one
connected trace (bff → domain/projection → acl → openzaak). /health is filtered
out. The exporter no-ops harmlessly when Tempo is unreachable (verified: domain
boots healthy with no collector).

refs #123

services/bff/Bff.Api/Program.cs

@@ -3,9 +3,23 @@ using System.Text.Json;
 using System.Text.Json.Serialization;
 using Bff.Api;
 using Microsoft.AspNetCore.Authentication.JwtBearer;
+using OpenTelemetry.Resources;
+using OpenTelemetry.Trace;
 
 var builder = WebApplication.CreateBuilder(args);
 
+// OpenTelemetry tracing (S-16b, ADR-0023): auto-instrument incoming ASP.NET Core requests and
+// outgoing HttpClient calls (BFF → Domain, BFF → projection-api), exported over OTLP to Tempo, so a
+// portal request is one connected trace across the services. Service name + OTLP endpoint come from
+// OTEL_* env (compose); the exporter no-ops when Tempo is unreachable. /health is filtered out.
+builder.Services.AddOpenTelemetry()
+    .ConfigureResource(r => r.AddService(
+        builder.Configuration["OTEL_SERVICE_NAME"] ?? builder.Environment.ApplicationName))
+    .WithTracing(tracing => tracing
+        .AddAspNetCoreInstrumentation(o => o.Filter = ctx => ctx.Request.Path != "/health")
+        .AddHttpClientInstrumentation()
+        .AddOtlpExporter());
+
 var keycloakAuthority = builder.Configuration["Keycloak:Authority"]
     ?? throw new InvalidOperationException("Missing configuration 'Keycloak:Authority'");
 // Behandelaars authenticate against a *different* Keycloak realm (medewerker) than citizens (digid),