feat(obs): OpenTelemetry distributed tracing across the five .NET services (refs #123)

Each host adds AddOpenTelemetry().WithTracing with ASP.NET Core + HttpClient
auto-instrumentation and an OTLP exporter to Tempo; service name + endpoint from
OTEL_* env set per app service in compose. Since every cross-service call goes
through a typed HttpClient, traceparent propagates for free, so a request is one
connected trace (bff → domain/projection → acl → openzaak). /health is filtered
out. The exporter no-ops harmlessly when Tempo is unreachable (verified: domain
boots healthy with no collector).

refs #123

services/event-subscriber/EventSubscriber.Api/Program.cs

@@ -1,9 +1,22 @@
 using System.Text.Json;
 using EventSubscriber.Application;
+using OpenTelemetry.Resources;
+using OpenTelemetry.Trace;
 using Projection.ReadModel;
 
 var builder = WebApplication.CreateBuilder(args);
 
+// OpenTelemetry tracing (S-16b, ADR-0023): auto-instrument the incoming NRC notification callback and
+// the outgoing ACL enrichment call, exported over OTLP to Tempo. Service name + OTLP endpoint come
+// from OTEL_* env (compose); the exporter no-ops when Tempo is unreachable.
+builder.Services.AddOpenTelemetry()
+    .ConfigureResource(r => r.AddService(
+        builder.Configuration["OTEL_SERVICE_NAME"] ?? builder.Environment.ApplicationName))
+    .WithTracing(tracing => tracing
+        .AddAspNetCoreInstrumentation(o => o.Filter = ctx => ctx.Request.Path != "/health")
+        .AddHttpClientInstrumentation()
+        .AddOtlpExporter());
+
 var connectionString = builder.Configuration.GetConnectionString("Projection")
     ?? throw new InvalidOperationException("Missing connection string 'ConnectionStrings:Projection'");
 // The exact Authorization header value Open Notificaties sends on each abonnement callback.