feat(self-service): trek aanvraag in — withdrawal action (S-11c-2, closes #12) (#93)

## What & why

Final sub-slice of **S-11 · Withdrawal (Flow 3)** — the user-facing "trek aanvraag in" action, which **closes #12**.

- **self-service portal**: the submit confirmation gains a **"Trek aanvraag in"** button. It withdraws the just-submitted registration via `postSelfServiceRegistrationsIdWithdraw(reference)`; success shows an *ingetrokken* confirmation, a failure is surfaced (`role="alert"`) and the action stays available — same confirm-and-surface pattern as submit.
- **acceptance**: `Een registratie intrekken` — owner withdraws → INGETROKKEN + workflow cancelled; a different bsn is reported not-found.
- **e2e**: `withdrawal.spec.ts` — DigiD submit → trek aanvraag in → the portal confirms ingetrokken.
- **docs**: demo-script + frontend-decisions.

Together with S-11a (#88), S-11b (#89), S-11c-1 (#90), this completes the flow: citizen withdraws → domain INGETROKKEN → BPMN message event cancels the process → the case leaves the behandelaar's werkbak.

Closes #12

## Definition of Done

- [x] Linked Gitea issue (#12).
- [x] Failing tests committed before the implementation.
- [x] Implementation makes the tests pass.
- [x] Conventional Commits referencing the issue (`refs #12`).
- [ ] CI green — all Gitea Actions jobs.
- [x] `docker compose up` unaffected.
- [x] Docs updated (demo-script + frontend-decisions).
- [x] ADR — ADR-0014 (from S-11b) covers the cancellation decision; nothing new here.

## Notes for reviewers

- Full local gate run before pushing: `dotnet format --verify-no-changes` clean; `make unit` green (Acceptance **11** incl. the 2 new withdrawal scenarios, Big 95, BFF 30, Acl 27, EventSubscriber 19); self-service lint/test/build green (9 tests, incl. the 2 new withdraw tests).
- `withdrawal.spec.ts` waits on the *ingetrokken* confirmation (which only renders after the withdraw POST returns), so it can't cancel the request early (the 499 lesson from #87). Live-validated by verify-stack.

Reviewed-on: #93

apps/self-service/src/app/registration/registration-page.ts

@@ -6,7 +6,8 @@ import { UtrechtComponentsModule } from 'ui';
 /**
  * The self-service submit page: a signed-in zorgprofessional confirms and submits their BIG
  * registration. The bsn comes from the DigiD token (not a form field), so this is a confirm-and-
- * submit flow that posts to the BFF and shows the returned reference (ADR-0010; S-08c).
+ * submit flow that posts to the BFF and shows the returned reference (ADR-0010; S-08c). After
+ * submitting they can withdraw it — "trek aanvraag in" — keyed by that reference (S-11c).
  */
 @Component({
   selector: 'app-registration-page',
@@ -22,6 +23,9 @@ export class RegistrationPage {
   protected readonly reference = signal<string | undefined>(undefined);
   protected readonly submitted = signal(false);
   protected readonly failed = signal(false);
+  protected readonly withdrawing = signal(false);
+  protected readonly withdrawn = signal(false);
+  protected readonly withdrawFailed = signal(false);
 
   submit(): void {
     this.submitting.set(true);
@@ -39,4 +43,24 @@ export class RegistrationPage {
       },
     });
   }
+
+  withdraw(): void {
+    const reference = this.reference();
+    if (!reference) {
+      return;
+    }
+    this.withdrawing.set(true);
+    this.withdrawFailed.set(false);
+    this.bff.postSelfServiceRegistrationsIdWithdraw(reference).subscribe({
+      next: () => {
+        this.withdrawn.set(true);
+        this.withdrawing.set(false);
+      },
+      // Surface the failure instead of swallowing it: keep the action so the user can retry.
+      error: () => {
+        this.withdrawFailed.set(true);
+        this.withdrawing.set(false);
+      },
+    });
+  }
 }