feat(#78): one citizen reference across self-service and the openbaar register (#79)

## What & why

Before this change the self-service confirmation and the openbaar register showed **different** identifiers, so a citizen could not look their registration back up (#78). Now both surface the same **reference**:

- **domain → ACL (write):** the domain `registrationId` is set as the zaak's `identificatie` on `POST /zaken`.
- **event-subscriber → ACL (read):** the subscriber reads the zaak's `identificatie` back through the ACL (§8.1 — only the ACL talks to ZGW) via a new `POST /zaken/reference`, and stores it on the projection row **and** the `processed_notifications` replay log.
- **BFF + openbaar:** the public view exposes `id/status/reference` (never bsn/naam) and searches by id or reference; the register's "Referentie" column shows the reference.

Storing the reference in the replay log keeps ADR-0008's **rebuild-is-log-only** invariant intact — `/admin/rebuild` reproduces the reference without re-reading the ACL.

Decision recorded in **ADR-0012**.

## Definition of Done

- [x] Linked issue: #78
- [x] Tests written first; red → green per layer
- [x] Unit + acceptance green (`make unit`): domain 49, acl 27, bff 20, event-subscriber 19, acceptance 7
- [x] Frontend lint + test green (`nx run-many -t lint test`)
- [x] Mutation ≥ break(90): acl 100%, event-subscriber 100%, bff 100%, domain 98.41% (pre-existing FlowableWorkflowClient baseline, untouched)
- [x] e2e extended: confirmation reference == register reference
- [x] openapi.json + api-client regenerated (drift guard green)
- [x] ADR-0012 added; demo-script note appended
- [x] `Acl__BaseUrl` wired for the subscriber in compose

closes #78

Reviewed-on: #79

services/projection-api/Projection.ReadModel/ProjectionDbContext.cs

@@ -24,6 +24,7 @@ public sealed class ProjectionDbContext(DbContextOptions<ProjectionDbContext> op
             e.HasKey(r => r.Id);
             e.Property(r => r.Id).HasColumnName("id");
             e.Property(r => r.Status).HasColumnName("status").IsRequired();
+            e.Property(r => r.Reference).HasColumnName("reference");
             e.Property(r => r.Bsn).HasColumnName("bsn");
             e.Property(r => r.NaamPlaceholder).HasColumnName("naam_placeholder");
         });
@@ -36,6 +37,7 @@ public sealed class ProjectionDbContext(DbContextOptions<ProjectionDbContext> op
             e.Property(r => r.Actie).HasColumnName("actie").IsRequired();
             e.Property(r => r.ZaakId).HasColumnName("zaak_id").IsRequired();
             e.Property(r => r.Resource).HasColumnName("resource").IsRequired();
+            e.Property(r => r.Reference).HasColumnName("reference");
             e.Property(r => r.ReceivedAt).HasColumnName("received_at");
         });
     }
@@ -46,6 +48,10 @@ public sealed class RegisterEntryRow
 {
     public required string Id { get; set; }
     public required string Status { get; set; }
+
+    /// <summary>The citizen-facing reference (the zaak's identificatie) — matches the submit confirmation (#78).</summary>
+    public string? Reference { get; set; }
+
     public string? Bsn { get; set; }
     public string? NaamPlaceholder { get; set; }
 }
@@ -61,5 +67,8 @@ public sealed class ProcessedNotificationRow
     /// the right status without reading OpenZaak (S-09b).</summary>
     public required string Resource { get; set; }
 
+    /// <summary>The zaak reference (identificatie), retained so a rebuild reprojects it without the ACL (#78).</summary>
+    public string? Reference { get; set; }
+
     public DateTimeOffset ReceivedAt { get; set; }
 }